On behalf of the women who speak quietly
On this International Day for Women in Maritime,

On behalf of the women who speak quietly
On this International Day for Women in Maritime, we are thinking about the women we hear from quietly….
Not the ones featured in campaigns or event panels. Instead, we are thinking of the ones lying despondent in their cabins replaying conversations. The ones striving to stay professional while carrying the weight of comments, touches, isolation, humiliation and fear. Or simply living with the exhaustion of constantly having to prove they belong, deserve their place onboard and simply wanting to be seen as a fellow professional member of the crew
The women who still love the sea, despite everything.
At Safer Waves, we speak to women across the industry who feel unseen, unheard, and at times completely alone. Women questioning themselves after reading comments online saying, “this is why women shouldn’t work onboard” or “some jobs women shouldn’t be doing and going to sea is one of them”.
We hear from women who are left navigating the challenge of acting professionally when being propositioned, catcalled or objectified by crew members or port workers. And women who log onto their phones off-watch just to see the notifications pressurising them for contact they don’t want or incoming images of cyberflashing.
We speak to women who report inappropriate behaviour only to watch gossip spread faster than accountability. Women labelled “difficult” for asking for the same respect routinely given to others. And women who live under the daily grind of incessant baseless rumours, just because they dared to go ashore with someone, or often before they have even walked up the gangway.
We also hear from women pushed to the edge of their mental health, isolated at sea, carrying the weight of separation from children and families back home, sometimes with little meaningful contact or support.
We hear from women left emotionally and financially abandoned after reporting harm or leaving unsafe situations, unsure where to turn next.
And yet, despite this, they continue showing up. Continue seeing through and renewing contracts. Continue showing up for their watches. And continue to be exceptional at what they do, not because of their gender but irrespective of it.
That resilience should never be mistaken for acceptance.
Despite the quiet pressure to stay silent, stay professional, and simply “get on with it,” they continue showing up. But should resilience really be the expectation, or should the industry finally and truly start to focus on improving the conditions women are expected to endure?
So, to the woman quietly reeling after reading those comments online: you belong onboard.
To the woman who scrolls through judgement before embarkation and wonders if she will have to fight to be taken seriously again: you have nothing to prove.
To the woman carrying the discomfort of touches or comments brushed off as “banter” or “just the way things are”: you deserved safety and professionalism.
To the woman whose cabin no longer feels like a safe place to rest: this moment does not define your future.
To the woman who reported what happened, only to feel invalidated when the person responsible moved on without consequence: your pain matters, and your courage mattered too.
To the woman who spoke up and wasn’t believed: we believe you.
To the woman lying awake replaying experiences no seafarer should ever endure: you are not weak for struggling, and you are not alone in this.
To the woman treated as the problem instead of the behaviour she challenged: it was never your fault.
And to the men onboard who lead with respect, who challenge harmful behaviour, who call out inappropriate comments whether in person or online, who create safe teams and treat women as equal professionals: thank you. Your actions matter more than you may ever realise.
Women in maritime should not have to survive the industry in order to succeed within it.
So today is not just about celebrating Women in Maritime. It is about acknowledging the quieter reality too. The emotional labour. The hypervigilance. The loneliness some women carry while trying to remain composed and capable in environments that are not always supportive to their name on the crew list.
Because behind every statistic is a person simply trying to do their job with safety and dignity.
Safer Waves continue to push for an industry where men and women are not merely welcomed into maritime, but protected, respected, heard, and able to thrive within it.
In maritime, resilience is often praised but too often that resilience is built on silence, endurance, and survival.
Real cultural change will not come from asking women to tolerate more. It will come from creating environments where speaking up is met with support instead of consequences, where reporting harm does not risk isolation or career damage, and where safety is measured not by how much people can endure, but by how protected and respected they feel onboard.
Because the pressure to remain silent does not disappear solely through policy and reporting frameworks. It disappears when trust, accountability, and psychological safety become part of everyday life at sea.
Not just on Women in Maritime Day.
Every day.











